The lack of respect for other people is the main reason behind abuse.
The abuser generally has a low HVE or human values equivalent. Often as a result of his education and upbringing, as well as of character traits.
We ourselves were victims of verbal abuse in 2004. For weeks on end, we were regularly insulted and humiliated. We did in fact not do anything wrong. The main reason behind the attack was jealousy.
The insults and psychological mistreatment became more intense and more frequent by the day.
“You’re too good for this world” was often what people said to us.
Defending ourselves was difficult. Indeed, we do not like to quarrel at all. After a while, we could hardly sleep any more and finally we became exhausted and we collapsed.
The attacker was astonished and said to one of our colleagues: “I did not mean to hit them so hard”. But he had, the collapse was profound, we lost most of our memory and it took several years before we recovered sufficiently to take up some professional activity again and lead an acceptable life.
During the recovery process, we extensively thought about why this kind of situations and conflicts happen. We discussed about it with people from around the world. We talked about possible reasons behind these conflicts.
We concluded it was mainly the lack of respect for human values. Or, in other words, the lack of peace.
We decided to launch a campaign to promote peace and human values. It was the start of Danellandia.
Since we went through this very bad experience, we can better understand what victims of abuse must be going through.
Abuse shows a lack of respect for the other person. It is often a breach of privacy… Also, it shows the abuser has not reached the necessary level of intelligence to know what life is all about and that by abusing others he hurts himself too.
We hope that promoting human values will gradually reduce abuse, while showing abusers the real purpose of life: building peace or developing one’s humanity.
Danellandia se creó el 28 de marzo de 2004, después de un grave incidente que drásticamente cambió nuestra vida.
Se basa en discusiones sobre este mundo y sus muchos problemas con personas de diferentes orígenes, países, religiones y edades.
Danellandia definió 25 valores humanos como la base de su campaña para hacer este mundo mejor y más justo en muchos campos de las actividades humanas: política, economía, medios de comunicación, relaciones personales, educación, cuidado de la Naturaleza…
Puedes ayudarnos a promover estos valores compartiendo el material de este sitio.
Conviértete en un danellandiano o amigo de la Paz promoviendo los valores humanos para impulsar la paz.
Este mundo necesita personas y líderes que pongan a la humanidad en primer lugar y no al dinero ni al poder. Personas y líderes que se unen en lugar de crear tensiones, divisiones y conflictos.
Los valores humanos fuertes son un pasaporte para un futuro sostenible.
¡El mundo de la Paz es posible!